something triggered me today to post what i posted in gsik. something i DO NOT normally do as to avoid any 'negative consequences' or what? 'misconception'? (pardon my poor vocab hee...:p)
people always say 'sometimes something are best left unspoken' and most of the time i agree.
hence less 'rubbish' coming from me if you noticed..full stop.
but today i just thought i have to have my voices heard.
many may beg to differ from my 'not-so-smart-but-i-think-i-know-better-though-i dont-know-much-thoughts', i apologise and you may choose to stay away from me. annyong~
bcos the post was something out of the ordinary even for myself im shovelling it here just for record hehe..
its really amazing to see the kind of love and support our dear YJ nim gets everytime 'something' happens. the amount of visitors here actually doubled and doubled ever since the injury news broke out. it has been quite sometime now that the official home gets so 'lively'
ok now..lets get to the point..
i may not be the right person to say this but having been around in the family since the old old WLS days i would just like to share my thoughts and opinion on his recent injury..
im sure everyone has been really shocked when news of his injury first broke out. including myself and few other sisters from other countries started text messaging non-stop from the time we got the news in the noon till late at night. no idea what we texted but 'worry' has always been the topic. i came home, like most of you i even wrote our dear YJ nim a message here. telling him what most everyone was saying about his health and what WE think HE should do. then i went to sleep with 'mr. worry'
then came yesterday..after some sleep my worries seemed to have mellowed a little. my brains seemed to have returned to normal after the shocked suffered the day before. then i started thinking about what i wrote yesterday to him.
have i been a little too hasty with what ive written to him?
if i always say i know him so well, have i actually consider how he will feel reading my message?
i may be wrong i may be right. sitting down with a clear mind i think again..
is he one person that will do things without thinking twice? no. i think he actually think thrice.
why did he asked for a 'no name naming' in the finger injury incident?
because he knew the family well
how is he able to maintain his 'beautifulness' while still enduring such pain in him?
because he love his family and knew them well.
i am very sure BYJ being BYJ, is an ABSOLUTE SMART person.
im sure intelligence is one of the qualities in him that makes you love him, right? ^^
he wouldnt be doing something that he shouldnt do.
im sure he has weighted the pros and cons each time he makes a decision.
and at times decisions are make not only for himself but for others too.
right now, what we can all do is to only support his decision.
nobody can force him to do anything that he cant or dont want to do (this i can be very sure)
he knows himself better than anyone else. he will stop when he thinks he should stop.
so, if he decides to go ahead we should be with him all the way
and here's something i think we SHALL be doing..
PLEASE STOP putting blame on any party. the decision is his and his ALONE.
this should 'reduce' some stress in him as he has never want his family to be worrying too much.
if you think you love him, believe in him, have faith in him and give him all your support !!!
ABSOLUTELY BYJ !!! I LOVE YOU !!!..